Preparing for
Ostomy Surgery
Articles
Included:
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Preparing for Ostomy Surgery
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Life After Ileostomy Surgery
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Phases of Surgical Recovery
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Life After Ileostomy Surgery
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Ileostomy Hints
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Pregnancy and Ileostomy
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Loves Labor Lost
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Life After Ostomy Surgery
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Life Begins with an Ostomy
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A Medical Break-Through
Preparing for Ostomy Surgery
By Rodney Crick, Re-Route
What can a person, or should a person do to prepare for having ostomy surgery?
Learn as much as you can about the type of ostomy you are going to have
created, where it will be located, what it will look like, how it will
function, and what you will need in the way of supplies to care for it. Pamphlets that explain the various types of
ostomies and how they are created are available through the United Ostomy
Association by calling 1-800-826-0826.
ConvaTec and Hollister Intl.
both have videos and informational booklets available that explain a great deal
about the different types of ostomies and how they are cared for. They are available by contacting these
suppliers direct at: ConvaTec.com,
800-422-5511; and Hollister.com,
847-680-1000.
Discuss any concerns you may
have with your surgeon ahead of time.
The surgeon you choose should be experienced in the number of ostomy
surgeries performed. Ideally the stoma
he or she will create should protrude outward from the abdomen at least one
half inch for ileostomies. Patient’s
that have stomas that are created flush with the skin tend to experience more
skin excoriations with ileostomies and some colostomies.
During peristalsis, the skin
surrounding the stoma will pull inward with the result being that discharge
containing enzymes will get between the barrier and the skin causing the pouch
to fail, excoriating the skin. Ask the
hospital where you will be having surgery to help you arrange for an ostomy
visitor. You have a right to ask for and receive a trained Ostomy Visitor
through the local chapter of the United Ostomy Association.
They can match you up with a
visitor that has undergone the same type of surgery you will be having and who
can answer many of your questions and calm your fears and anxiety. Ask the
visitor if you can call them later with any further questions you might have.
Ask the hospital where surgery will be performed if they have an Enterostomal Therapist (ET nurse) on staff that you can
visit to have your stoma site marked prior to surgery being performed. This
allows the surgeon to place the stoma on the abdomen in the area that is least
likely to be obtrusive or cause pouching problems after surgery.
Your stoma will be easier to
care for if it is not created in a beltline, fold, or scar tissue crevice in
your skin and will result in better adhesion of the wafer, with fewer leakages
and skin problems. The ET nurse can also
show you samples of the pouch you will wear during your stay in the hospital.
During this visit, make sure
that the ET will show you how to change your wafer and pouch and teach you the
basics of stoma care before you leave the hospital. Adopt a positive mental attitude and
realistic expectations about your surgery and life afterward. Face the realization that you are not the
only person this has happened to in life.
There are about a half
million people out there in the U.S. alone whose ostomy surgeries have allowed
them to conquer disease and lead normal healthy lifestyles filled with work,
activities, play and relationships.
Realize that you must give yourself time to heal following surgery; but,
do expect to become one of them.
Life After Ileostomy Surgery
By Jan Madaffri
My name is
Jan Madaffri and I am a 23 year old female. I only knew my future husband four months
before my permanent ileostomy surgery.
In January 1990, I received my first ileostomy—a temporary—due to
ulcerative colitis. It was later
reversed to a J-pouch in July 1991.
I wasn't in
pain anymore from ulcerative colitis, but I was unable to control my trips to
the toilet. This put a big damper on my social
life; i.e., being a prisoner to the toilet.
When I first met my husband, I only explained to him that I couldn't
control my bowel movements due to a disease.
I didn't go into specifics about the temporary ileostomy that I had a
year earlier. I didn't feel it was
important anymore since the ostomy was gone.
How was I to know that I would need another ileostomy later down the
line?
We weren't
able to go out and eat in restaurants or go to movies or clubs because my body
wouldn't allow me to be away from a toilet for very long. So, our dates consisted of watching a rented
movie at my house so the toilet would be close by.
At times, I
would be in the bathroom for hours at a time.
By the time I could come back out and join him, he would be asleep on
the couch. He didn't seem to mind, but I
hated losing that time to be with him.
After we had
been dating for about four months, I needed another surgery. Basically, the J-pouch was failing and I
needed a permanent ileostomy to save my life.
I was ready to have the ostomy back; I was tired of living on the
toilet. When I was in high school, I
only attended my freshman year in the physical school building. I finished the next three years being home
schooled because of the severity and complications of the ulcerative
colitis. I didn't want to be a prisoner
any longer.
When I
recovered from the surgery, I was scared he would leave me once I told him what
the surgery involved. I showed him a
brochure that would best explain the surgery, what an ileostomy was, and what
it looked like.
He simply
said, "OK". A little over two
years later we were married. He later
said that when I was explaining the surgery to him, he realized just how much
he loved me. He said it didn't matter
that I had an ileostomy, he just wanted me to feel well and to be with me.
Now, we were
able to go out in public and enjoy being with each other and our friends. I swim, go out to clubs to dance, exercise;
nothing is "off limits" because I have an ileostomy. In fact, without the ileostomy, many
activities had previously been off limits to me.
I would still
be grateful for my ileostomy even if he had left me because he couldn't handle
it. But, I am much happier that he
loves me and decided to stay. He has
proven to me that there are people out there who will love you for you. Anyway—the way I see it—if anyone doesn't,
then he/she doesn't deserve your love.
The Phases of Surgical Recovery
By Dr. Albert G. Wagoner
Each patient, along with the
family, usually goes through four phases of recovery, following an accident or
illness that results in loss of function of an important part of the body. Only the time required for each phase
varies. Knowledge of the four phases of
recovery is essential:
The Shock Phase—The period
of psychological impact. Probably, you remember nothing of this phase after
your operation. Nevertheless, it is a phase that requires a lot of support.
The Defensive Retreat
Phase—The period in which you defend yourself against the implication of the crisis. You avoid reality. Characteristic in this period is wishful
thinking or denial, or repression of your actual condition. For example, an
ostomate believes that his/her entire colon is still there and will be
connected later.
The Phase of Acknowledgment—In
this period you face reality. As you
give up the existing old structure, you may enter into a period, at least
temporarily, of depression, apathy, agitation, or bitterness and of high
anxiety. You hate your stoma, yourself, you cry a lot, pity or condemn
yourself. You may not eat, be unable to
sleep or want to be left to die. In this phase you need all the support that
can be mustered.
The Phase of Adaptation—Now,
you actively cope with the situation in a constructive manner. You adapt,
during a shorter or longer period, the adjustments that are necessary. You begin to establish new structures and
develop a new sense of worth, with the aid of an ET nurse and an ostomy
visitor, you can learn about living with an ostomy. Aided by your physician, social workers,
ostomy association and family, you go about rebuilding and altering the life
that brought about the condition. Sound
familiar?
Life After Ileostomy Surgery
By Jan Madaffri
My name is
Jan Madaffri and I am a 23 year old female. I only knew my future husband four months
before my permanent ileostomy surgery.
In January 1990, I received my first ileostomy—a temporary—due to
ulcerative colitis. It was later
reversed to a J-pouch in July 1991.
I wasn't in
pain anymore from ulcerative colitis, but I was unable to control my trips to
the toilet. This put a big damper on my
social life; i.e., being a prisoner to the toilet. When I first met my husband, I only explained
to him that I couldn't control my bowel movements due to a disease. I didn't go into specifics about the
temporary ileostomy that I had a year earlier.
I didn't feel it was important anymore since the ostomy was gone. How was I to know that I would need another
ileostomy later down the line?
We weren't
able to go out and eat in restaurants or go to movies or clubs because my body
wouldn't allow me to be away from a toilet for very long. So, our dates consisted of watching a rented
movie at my house so the toilet would be close by.
At times, I
would be in the bathroom for hours at a time.
By the time I could come back out and join him, he would be asleep on
the couch. He didn't seem to mind, but I
hated losing that time to be with him.
After we had
been dating for about four months, I needed another surgery. Basically, the J-pouch was failing and I
needed a permanent ileostomy to save my life.
I was ready to have the ostomy back; I was tired of living on the
toilet. When I was in high school, I
only attended my freshman year in the physical school building. I finished the next three years being home
schooled because of the severity and complications of the ulcerative
colitis. I didn't want to be a prisoner
any longer.
When I
recovered from the surgery, I was scared he would leave me once I told him what
the surgery involved. I showed him a
brochure that would best explain the surgery, what an ileostomy was, and what
it looked like.
He simply
said, "OK". A little over two
years later we were married. He later
said that when I was explaining the surgery to him, he realized just how much
he loved me. He said it didn't matter
that I had an ileostomy, he just wanted me to feel well and to be with me.
Now, we were
able to go out in public and enjoy being with each other and our friends. I swim, go out to clubs to dance, exercise;
nothing is "off limits" because I have an ileostomy. In fact, without the ileostomy, many
activities had previously been off limits to me.
I would still
be grateful for my ileostomy even if he had left me because he couldn't handle
it. But, I am much happier that he
loves me and decided to stay. He has
proven to me that there are people out there who will love you for you. Anyway—the way I see it—if anyone doesn't,
then he/she doesn't deserve your love.
Ileostomy Hints
--Internet sources
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If you are on chemotherapy and your mouth is
sore, gargle with one teaspoon of baking soda in half a glass of water. It is also reported that some people obtain
relief from drinking carrot juice.
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The following foods may cause loose
stools. Do not stop eating these, but
you may wish to avoid them when diarrhea occurs: green beans, broccoli, prune juice, spinach,
raw fruits, rhubarb, beer and spicy foods.
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To help firm up a loose stool, some have
tried a large teaspoonful of bulk gelatin dissolved in water or lemon juice
once a day with success.
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The following foods often help firm up
stool: bananas, applesauce, boiled rice,
boiled milk, tapioca pudding, creamy peanut butter, buttermilk and yogurt.
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Two or three tablespoons of applesauce may
help firm up a liquid stool which may result from eating pizza or other spicy
foods.
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When diarrhea occurs, potassium and sodium
are lost rapidly. An easy way to replace
them is by drinking a quality sports drink; like Gatorade, some orange juice or
a salty broth in proportion to the fluids lost.
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Drinking tomato juice will help eliminate
odor, and is a good way to retard dehydration and keep the electrolytes in
balance. But, be careful. Tomato juice is full of salt, and you don't want
too much salt. It may increase your
blood pressure to unsafe levels.
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Eating a sprig or two of parsley daily works
wonders to combat odor.
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Cinnamon can be used in the pouch for odor
control.
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If you wash out your pouch, always use cool
water. Hot water seals in the odor.
·
Keep some grape juice on hand. If you eat something that causes a blockage,
just drink a glass of the juice; it works wonders.
Pregnancy and the Ileostomy
By Marcus Setchell, FRCS,
Ottawa Ostomy News
Pregnancy
Before embarking
on a pregnancy, it is important to check with your doctor or surgeon as to
whether you are now fit to go ahead. You
may be asked to visit a gynecologist for pre-pregnancy counseling to discuss
any possible difficulties before pregnancy occurs.
Most women
with ileostomies sail through their pregnancies with no particular problems,
but some commonly asked questions and less common problems will be discussed.
Will my ileostomy
work normally?
Usually the
ileostomy works perfectly normally during pregnancy. But, you may need to increase fluid intake
because the developing fetus and the changes going on inside your body require
extra fluid.
Occasionally
during pregnancy, women get episodes of intestinal obstruction when the
enlarging uterus causes a hold-up in the passage of intestinal contents. The ileostomy stops flowing into the pouch,
and the abdomen may become distended and colicky pain is felt. Restricting the diet to fluids only and
resting may resolve the problem. But on
very rare occasions, hospital admission and an intravenous IV will be needed to
rest the intestine.
During
pregnancy, changing of the ileostomy system is not usually difficult. When the abdomen gets very big in the later
stages of pregnancy, it may be necessary to use a mirror—of course most use
mirror regularly anyway.
Sometimes the
stoma enlarges due to stretching of the skin and muscle, and there may be some
prolapse of the intestine into the pouch.
That is more of a situation to manage instead of concern to ones health.
What about diet
during pregnancy?
Nobody needs
to eat for two in pregnancy. Some
increase in certain foods may be desirable.
Plenty of protein and vitamins are needed. It may be sensible to eat more meat, eggs or
cheese, and some vegetables or salads.
Iron tablets
will usually be prescribed and possibly some vitamin tablets. Pregnant women should avoid all but small
quantities of alcohol, and, of course, smoking is very harmful for the
developing baby.
Is natural
childbirth possible?
Caesarian
section is certainly not the rule for ileostomy patients; indeed, most
obstetricians will try to avoid this because previous surgical scars may make
the operation slightly more difficult.
The vast majority of women with an ileostomy are able to have a vaginal
birth. But, there are a few factors
which can affect details of the birth.
If the rectum
has been removed and there is scar tissue in the perineum—the area between the
vagina and the original site of the anus, it may be necessary to do an
episiotomy—a small cut to enlarge the vaginal entrance—in order to make the
birth easier and prevent an ugly tear.
If there has
been considerable damage to the nerve supply, the woman may not get the urge to
push her baby out, and so may require a forceps delivery.
None of this
matters because local anesthetics are used; or an epidural—a special injection
near the spine which takes away all the pain of childbirth…it is
wonderful. If the midwife or doctor are
not familiar with ileostomies, do not worry.
They will listen to your needs and work with you on any of these small
issues.
Breastfeeding?
There is no
reason at all why an ileostomate should not breastfeed. Remember, a breastfed baby may drink several
pints of milk a day, and so fluids must be taken in greater quantities. There is no evidence that beer is better than
any other fluid for breastfeeding mothers.
Infertility
There has
been much discussion and disagreement as to whether infertility is more common
in people with an ileostomy.
Approximately 10% of the population has a problem in achieving
pregnancy. It is possible that some
causes of infertility are a little more common in people who have had one of
the conditions leading to an ileostomy.
If women are
in a very poor state-of-health; are grossly underweight—as sometimes happens to
people before an ileostomy, then their periods may stop, and they will not
ovulate—make an egg. Once health is
restored, and their weight reaches normal levels, the periods and ovulation
resume. Occasionally, a drug is required
to stimulate ovulation.
Sometimes,
the underlying condition, or the operations for it, cause damage to the Fallopian
tubes either by causing kinking and adhesions, or rarely, by blocking the
tubes. Where this is suspected, tests
will be done by x-ray to check the tubes, and it may be necessary to have an
operation to improve the tubes.
If this is
not successful, or if the tubes are very badly affected, in vitro fertilization
(IVF) may be considered. This treatment
is perfectly possible for women with an ileostomy. Nowadays, the eggs are
usually collected through the vagina or bladder so there is no danger of interfering
with the ileostomy. It is, however,
important to remember that IVF is still a relatively unsuccessful form of
treatment, and not everybody gets their "miracle" baby.
Love's Labor Lost
By Marjorie Kaufman, Los Ileos
News
The surgeon
probably doesn't have a stoma; the ET doesn't have one either; but the patient
has a stoma he/she didn't want, is having a struggle accepting it, and is in a
tailspin over all the paraphernalia and rigmarole of putting ostomy equipment
together.
Eight days
post-op and it all seems like a bad dream.
The doctor and the ET have made a quality attempt to reassure their
patient that all is well, and he/she is ready to go back to the world. The patient is not so sure about this
him/herself, and doesn't know what "doing fine" really means. Not that he/she doubts the words of the
professionals, but he/she has a strong desire to see one of those people, who
have licked this thing. He/she wants to
be convinced that there may be a better tomorrow.
The ET, who
believes he/she has given him/her the best care possible, calls for a visitor
only to satisfy his/her whim. The ET
knows that he/she him/herself will take care of the mechanics, and the visitor
will provide a glimpse of the patient's future—the picture worth a thousand
words.
A
scenario: The visitor arrives to find
the patient in mechanical trouble. The
ET, not on staff at this hospital, has left the patient "appliance
perfect". The unforeseen happens—as
it does with most new ostomates—a leak.
Written instructions are clear and concise and the materials are ready
for application, but the nurses' hands are tied. Orders are "hands-off" until the
visiting ET returns tomorrow. Padding is
applied.
The
visitor? He/she know what that leak is
doing to the tender and unaccustomed skin.
He/she can feel the itching, the burning and the discomfort. He visualizes the inflammation building up
while the patient waits for relief that may be a whole day away.
Where once
he/she could have helped, he/she now is rendered impotent. By ET standards, he/she must ignore the
mechanical failure. The visitor is
limited to conversation only. He/she is
just there to appear healthy…not to help medically.
Dare we then
return the criticism professionals have voiced against experienced visitors on
occasion? Is our first obligation to the professional
rather than the patient? We are forced
to stand idly by sacrificing the patient's skin to save our own.
Note: We
have copied the above article because we think it is of value. If you're an ostomy visitor, you already know
that we are not allowed to touch the patient in a medical fashion. We don't give medical advice; that's the way
it has to be to avoid personal liability and medical licensing issues.
We don't think any volunteer ostomy visitor
wants to give medical advice, but it's possible that a visitor might help a
patient change an appliance in an emergency, or even offer tips on irrigating a
colostomy. But we don't. We make our visits, try to look as nice and
healthy as possible, and assure the patient that better days are ahead. We've all been there.
Life After Ostomy Surgery
By Muriel G. Greenspan, Metro Maryland
When I was
diagnosed with colon cancer and faced surgery for a colostomy, I was completely
devastated and thought my life was over.
It took quite
a while for me to come to acceptance—thanks in part to unforgettable
discussions with Horace at meetings of the Metro Maryland Ostomy Assn. After a time, I also began visiting patients
who recently had the same surgery—trying to reassure them that life does go on,
if you are determined to be a survivor and not wallow in self-pity.
Since I was a
widow with both of my children married, living out of state, I was on my own
and had to make a life for myself. As I
gained confidence that I could operate basically as a "normal"
person, thoughts of travel came back to me.
I had always loved to travel from the time I was a teenager.
During my
marriage, my husband and I had taken several island cruises and two extensive
European vacations. I was determined to
try and travel again with my new situation—being an ostomate. I am happy to report that I have successfully
traveled to Israel, Greece, the Orient, Turkey, Scandinavia, St. Petersburg, Alaska,
England, Scotland, France and Costa Rica.
In
preparation for any trip, I see my doctor first, advise him as to where I am
going and get inoculations as needed. I
always take some diarrhea medication with me—just in case.
I make sure I
have bottled water—even for irrigation—since many problems may be caused by
bacteria in the water of the different regions I visit. Also, I take at least twice as many supplies
as I could possibly need for the time I will be away. I try to be careful of what I eat and avoid ice in drinks.
In addition,
I make sure to have adequate extra supplies with me in my carry-on
luggage. You never know when your
luggage will be lost—even temporarily.
Enjoy your new life and bon voyage.
Life Begins with an Ostomy
By Dr. John Irelford, Ostomona News
Life begins
with an ostomy. Crazy, you say? OK, let's analyze. Before you were told you would have to live
with an ostomy, how often did you reflect on life, your family, the
environment, the beauty and wonderment of a sunrise, or the magnificence and
beauty of a sunset?
For the first
time, you experienced the possibility that your brief visit to this life might
end. Suddenly all your senses became
heightened. The appreciation of living and
staying alive became real to you.
Think back to
all the time one wastes—sitting doing nothing, silly day-dreaming, arguing
about nothing, putting off to the next day, worrying about things that never
come to pass, etc. Never before does one
wish that he/she could have the time for things that are important, to
accomplish tasks, mend personal relationships, and most of all—make peace with
God.
Life and the
meaning of life come into clear focus, and the frivolous aspects of life fade
out of sight. Each person reacts
differently to these realizations, some positively, others negatively. Some adjust and live, others lament that
which may never come to pass—and they die
Since we only
visit this earth once, it is important to make every moment count. A moment wasted can never be recaptured. An ostomy gives you a second chance to assess
priorities and start living the important side of life…to enjoy each day for
itself…to not waste a moment. An ostomy
opens the blinds…and lets the sunshine into your life once more.
--Hope Heart Institute, Seattle,
WA
Breakthrough studies on
nutrition and health are announced every day. When reading or listening to a
news story, it’s important to be a critical thinker. Here are some tips.
Single Study: As a rule, do not make radical nutrition or
life-style changes based on the results of a single study. Talk to your doctor
if the “news” relates to a medical condition you have. In most cases, it’s best
to make changes after several highly-regarded studies have confirmed the
results.
Conflict: If the new findings conflict with previous studies, look
for a reason why. Be aware that the media loves to play up “exciting” news.
Quick Fix: Be wary of recommendations that promise a quick fix. If something
sounds too good to be true, it probably is.
Headlines & Bottom Lines: Read beyond the attention-grabbing
headlines. Headlines simplify complex findings. Bottom-line conclusions are
usually reported at the very end of news stories.
Verification: Read several news reports. Your local paper, USA Today, and the New
York Times each may put an entirely different spin on the same research. Look
up the original journal article, if possible. You can find most article
summaries on the following database:
www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/druginformation.html.
Method: Analyze how the study was done. Long-term studies that involve a lot
of people are usually more reliable than quick, small studies. “Memory recall”
studies are notoriously unreliable. Note that study results may not apply to
you if the people studied differ in age, gender, race, locale, health habits,
etc.
Source: Analyze the source. The best research is conducted by leading
organizations, is peer-reviewed, and is published in leading medical or
scientific journals. Note that publication in a prestigious journal does not
guarantee that the findings are definitive or conclusive.
Interpretation: Look for expert interpretation and commentary from health and
nutrition professionals.
Bias: Beware of researcher and or funding bias. Examples:
Nutrition studies financed by food manufacturers should be taken with a grain
of salt. Beware of health organizations that have an underlying financial issue
at stake.
Specialization: Most researchers are specialists, so you’ll have to put the whole
picture together by yourself, Example: a cardiovascular research study might
note that one alcoholic drink a day decreases the risk of heart disease, and
neglect to mention that it increases the risk of some cancers.